How to Prepare for Your 1st Speed Dating Event

Jan 10

Two singles are having a conversation at a We Met IRL speed dating event

If you’re gearing up for your first speed dating event, you might be feeling a mix of excitement and nerves. Don’t worry – I’ve got you covered! Having hosted countless speed dating events with We Met IRL, I’ve picked up some valuable tips along the way. Here are my top five tips to help you make the most of your experience:

5 Tips for Attending a Speed Dating Event

Dress Like You Would for a First Date:
First impressions matter, and your outfit plays a big role in that. Dress like you would for a first date – something that makes you feel confident and comfortable. Aim for a smart-casual look unless the event specifies otherwise. Remember, when you feel good in what you’re wearing, it shows!
Don’t Be Late
Punctuality is key. Arriving on time ensures you start the event relaxed and composed. Plus, it shows that you’re respectful of other people’s time. Give yourself plenty of time to get to the venue, find parking if needed, and settle in.
Come with an Open Mind
One of the best things about speed dating is the variety of people you’ll meet. Come with an open mind and be ready to engage with everyone. You never know who you might click with, and being open-minded increases your chances of making meaningful connections.
Ask Open-Ended Questions
Instead of sticking to the typical “What do you do?” questions, try asking open-ended ones that encourage deeper conversations. Questions like “What’s the most interesting place you’ve traveled to?” or “What’s your favorite way to spend a weekend?” can lead to more engaging and memorable discussions.
Be Yourself!
This might be the most important tip of all. Authenticity is attractive, and being yourself is the best way to find someone who genuinely connects with you. Don’t try to be someone you’re not. Embrace your quirks and let your true personality shine through.

Speed dating is a fun and unique way to meet new people. By following these tips, you’ll be well-prepared to make a great impression and enjoy the experience. If you’re interested in learning more about hosting your own speed dating events, don’t forget to check out my ebook guide on our website!

Thanks for reading, and happy speed dating!